May 17, 2022

Monique Samuels on Leaving ‘RHOP,’ Returning to Actuality TV

Monique Samuels Opens Up About Leaving RHOP Returning Reality TV

Monique Samuels.
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Monique Samuels is making her actuality TV comeback — however not in a manner most viewers have been anticipating.

After saying goodbye to actuality TV greater than two years in the past, the previous Actual Housewives of Potomac star, 38, is starring in a brand new actuality present, Love & Marriage: DC. The present will give an inside take a look at her life together with her husband, Chris Samuels, and different profitable {couples} as they navigate their enterprise endeavors and their private lives and friendships within the D.C., Virginia and Maryland space.

“As a result of it’s actual. It’s really what I really feel was meant for me — love and marriage,” Monique solely tells Us Weekly after reflecting on her earlier time on actuality TV. “That was my cause for coming to actuality TV. The platform that I used to be beforehand on — it didn’t actually match with that dynamic.”

The Mila Eve Necessities founder claimed the Bravo sequence was “poisonous,” declaring that she had no regrets about leaving the present behind. “It was price it to me as a result of my peace means extra to me than any present, any test, any particular person,” she informed Us. “As I transfer ahead I solely do issues that I really feel, like, received’t interrupt my peace.”

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Monique’s December 2020 exit from the Actual Housewives franchise got here after Bravo cameras caught a bodily altercation together with her castmate Candiace Dillard Bassett. The incident left each actuality TV stars going through assault fees however ended up being dismissed by the Workplace of the State’s Lawyer for Montgomery County, Maryland.

“It was a rising second. I’m now ready the place I’m absolutely conscious of who I’m,” she expressed to Us. “I do know what my triggers at the moment are after going via that, being in remedy, having a counselor, being open to a extra religious journey has led me on a path to actually know me.”

In the course of the season 5 reunion, which aired in December 2020, Monique apologized for her habits towards the Christmas Lottery star, who stormed off of the set in tears. “In fact, I’m upset … I’m simply making an attempt to clarify it the way in which that I course of it,” Monique informed host Andy Cohen on the time. “I actually went from one psychological state to the subsequent after which proper after that there’s my title within the headlines of me being pressed fees on. … Nothing in that night time warranted that but it surely occurred, I take duty for my actions and I had a horrible lapse of judgment and I misplaced management and I personal that … there’s no different excuse for it.”

The previous costars’ drama continued one month later when Monique alleged on the “Behind the Velvet Rope” podcast that she was handled like “lower than a human” on the Bravo sequence. Candiace seemingly threw shade on the claims, tweeting in January 2021, “Smh. I give up a job as soon as that I actually hated. I used to be ELATED to be rid of a spot and ppl that have been simply not for me. After I left, I by no means talked about that job once more. Bc I left of my very own volition. It was my selection. Any resentment died w/ my selection to depart. I’ll simply go away this right here.”

With the feud in her rearview, Monique is trying ahead to viewers attending to see a extra genuine facet of herself on her new OWN sequence, which premieres on Saturday, Might 14. Scroll down for Us Weekly‘s unique Q&A with the Love & Marriage: DC star:

Us Weekly: You’re starring in a brand new present on OWN referred to as Love & Marriage: DC. How does it really feel to be again on TV after over two years?

Monique Samuels: It’s nearly like I’m again for the primary time as a result of I don’t really feel like individuals have been in a position to see the total image with my first go-around on actuality TV. My preliminary mission was to point out what a Black household appears like, what a Black marriage appears like on actuality TV. There are plenty of stereotypes. And my husband and I needed to point out individuals that is how we’re and I don’t know that I ever had that chance. Then quick ahead to Love & Marriage: DC. This was the right match for me. And I do imagine all the pieces in life occurs for a cause. All the pieces I went via main as much as this second was for Love & Marriage: DC. We’re in a position to actually showcase right here’s our household, right here’s our marriage, right here we’re as entrepreneurs, right here we’re as mother and father, and right here we’re amongst a gorgeous circle of different people who find themselves in the identical place as us and we’re all studying and rising from one another. It’s extra up my alley this time round. And also you’ll see so many alternative sides of me as a result of I really feel as if I used to be put into considerably of a field the primary time individuals noticed me on actuality TV.

Us: Love & Marriage: DC is premiering Might 14. As everybody is aware of, you starred on The Actual Housewives of Potomac. Why did you resolve to return to TV with this new present?

MS: As a result of it’s actual. It’s really what I really feel was meant for me — love and marriage. That was my cause for coming to actuality TV. The platform that I used to be beforehand on — it didn’t actually match with that dynamic. I really feel like all the pieces is divinely laid out and I needed to undergo what I went via to get so far. I’m very enthusiastic about household, I’m enthusiastic about my marriage and folks get to see the total image. They get to see not simply me amongst a women’ group, however they get to see me, how I work together with my husband, how we navigate difficulties in our marriage, how we love one another, how we’d blow up on one another and the way we’re elevating these stunning children collectively. And all of the challenges which will come our manner. Now we have like-minded {couples} on this pals circle. They don’t tear you down. They construct you up. They relate to what you’re going via. To me, that’s extra of an instance of what individuals undergo in actual life. It’s not a poisonous atmosphere. It’s an atmosphere the place there could be misunderstandings, there is usually a little shade, there is usually a little enjoyable, but it surely’s actual and associated TV. You’ll watch the present and really feel such as you actually know us. All of us {couples} — the Samuels, the Silvas and the Tylers — we’ve such a variety of ages with our kids. So, we are able to contact on so many matters for all walks of life. It’s stunning. It’s a journey. We begin as social pals and also you’ll see how we navigate that to extra of an intimate relationship, far more open and weak with one another, and also you’ll see a sisterhood and brotherhood develop.

Us: What have you ever been doing because you left the Actual Housewives sequence?

MS: As quickly as I give up the present I began utilizing my YouTube channel “Tea with Monique” as soon as once more. It was a Q&A with followers of the present and I bought so busy that I wasn’t in a position to sustain with it so I rebooted that. I used to be in a position to additionally put collectively “BinderTime Tales” which gave individuals slightly little bit of tea from the binder that they didn’t get to see on the season 5 [RHOA] reunion so it was actually enjoyable. It was very Sport of Thrones-ish with the visuals and it was a manner for me to summarize my time on TV in the meanwhile and in addition it was therapeutic for me. I used to be in a position to get all of it out of my system in a inventive manner. Subsequent, I began Mila Eve Necessities, a line of pure, therapeutic important oils. It took off! It’s unimaginable. You should use it in your pores and skin. And I’ve Flawless Glow Toner which is the start of my skincare line that will likely be launching later this yr. It’s the bestseller in my retailer! By no means a uninteresting second!

Us: Was returning to actuality TV like using a motorcycle?

MS: I’m an open ebook. Something goes to be offered in such a manner the place you’re going to get to know the total me. I’ve at all times given it 100% when the cameras are round or not round. I’m nonetheless decided to at all times be me. It was extra like using a motorcycle as a result of I’m going to be me regardless. I don’t know how one can be anyone else! As quickly as the chance got here round and we began filming it was like, ‘OK, right here we go,’ and it was a significantly better match. Much less poisonous and the manufacturing firm was extra like a fly on the wall. It was very actual. I don’t really feel like I’m being edited within the second that I’m really giving my all. I really feel like once I was on RHOP I bought the ‘spoiled spouse edit.’ It was nearly like we are able to’t present her as a businesswoman. We are able to’t present her an excessive amount of together with her children. It was like I used to be solely imagined to be the massive spender and it was like that’s probably not me. I can try this at occasions, however that’s not the total particular person. I’m a really hard-working particular person and I’m not a stored spouse. It’s [now] good that I’m able to be me 100%. Within the midst of all of it, I wasn’t inspired to be someway. It was simply you be you and so they’re going to inform the story based mostly on what really occurred.

Us: How is that this present completely different from Housewives?

MS: It’s completely different as a result of that is extra targeted on marriage, enterprise, friendships [and] parenting. It’s extra of a full view of an individual versus on Housewives, [where] you usually have simply the ladies it’s targeted on and there’s normally just one entrepreneur, there’s one mother, there’s one one that’s single, there’s one one that’s divorced. As soon as they put you into that field, that’s the field they go away you in. They’re solely pulling [scenes] with what aligns with no matter field they put you in. So [fans] don’t see a lot of no matter else you’re doing.

Us: What can viewers anticipate from you and your husband Chris on Love & Marriage: DC?

MS: It is a model nobody has ever witnessed. We’re approaching 10 years of marriage and it’s fairly a battle. It simply so occurred to be filmed the place we’re going via some powerful issues and having actually weak conversations. It was like each confessional was like a remedy session. I hope that, in a way, as we glance again on the present it is going to strengthen our marriage and our bond and take our communication to a different degree. You get to see these friendship circles navigate life and simply doing our greatest to keep up our happiness and peace and uplift one another. However there’s going to be plenty of drama and plenty of scandals. Let’s simply say there’s a scenario when it’s, like, a D.C. scandal. An individual who presents themself in a manner and then you definately discover out effectively, you might be utterly the alternative of what you offered. It’s good! There’s going to be stuff you didn’t anticipate to see. Your mouth goes to drop. It’s a full season the place nobody is counting on one other particular person for tales. Everyone seems to be related. Everyone seems to be bringing their very own scenario and being open about it.

Us: Followers know you from the 4 seasons you starred on Housewives. You shared a lot on the present however determined to depart after season 5 following a bodily altercation with costar Candiace Dillard Bassett. What are your ideas concerning the present as we speak after what occurred?

MS: My ideas are nonetheless the identical. There have been fees pressed in opposition to me after which, after all, I countered. Then there have been talks of suing me financially. And it was a really nasty scenario. I used to be in a position to study so much from it and that’s the reason I’m the place I’m now. I really feel like when you possibly can really confront your self and have these powerful conversations with your self and actually develop and transfer ahead, I really feel just like the doorways and home windows open up. It was a rising second. I’m now ready the place I’m absolutely conscious of who I’m. And I do know what my triggers at the moment are after going via that, being in remedy, having a counselor, being open to a extra religious journey has led me on a path to actually know me. I do know what scenario to not contain myself in. I’ve realized that I’m an individual who has by no means dealt effectively with low power or low vibrating individuals and I’ve by no means been an individual who could be round a lot toxicity. Sadly, I didn’t even notice how poisonous it was till I left and was in a position to look again on it. I took possession of my actions. I used to be accountable from the start for my actions. And even in the long run, I can solely be accountable for me. I don’t look to anyone else. And I didn’t go into this sense like [I] wanted an apology. If it occurs, it occurs. And I used to be fantastic to do what I needed to do on my half to apologize to make myself complete and transfer ahead. It’s what it’s, and life occurs and typically you act exterior your self and there are not any excuses for it. All you are able to do is study from it and develop.

Us: Do you may have any regrets?

MS: In no way. I’m glad I made the choice to depart that franchise once I despatched the e-mail to give up. It was price it to me as a result of my peace means extra to me than any present, any test, any particular person. As I transfer ahead I solely do issues that I really feel, like, received’t interrupt my peace. And the second it does I’m going to point out the 2 fingers and be like, ‘I’m out!’ (laughs)

Us: Are you in contact with any RHOA costars?

MS: The one individuals who I acknowledge and discuss to are Karen Huger and Ashley Darby. I communicate with them, they attain out to me. Now we have been in a position to keep a gorgeous sisterhood that I’m very grateful for.

Us: Your former costar Ashley Darby and her husband, Michael, introduced in April that they’re separating. Did this come as a shock to you?

MS: It wasn’t a shock to me as a result of Ashley and I communicate. So we had been speaking so I knew there have been some points. I didn’t notice that it was taking place that highway although, actually. I knew she expressed some issues she was fighting, however I believed there was going to be a manner that they might navigate and get via it. And also you by no means know! They nonetheless might! Hope is rarely gone. I do know on the finish of the day Ashley goes to do what’s greatest for her and her stunning youngsters. And I do know one factor about Michael, he has at all times struck me as the kind [who] doesn’t need the drama, he simply needs to be blissful — and if submitting for authorized separation is in the end what makes them blissful, that’s what they’re going to do. They don’t care what anyone else has to say or suppose with regards to their marriage. They’ve made that clear through the years. I simply want them luck for positive.

Us: Andy Cohen has revealed he’s open and enthusiastic about you returning to the Housewives franchise. How do you are feeling about that?

MS: I admire Andy, we discuss offline. We nonetheless keep in contact. He is aware of I’d by no means come again to that present (laughs). Not whilst a cameo. Ashley and Karen let me know after they have been internet hosting issues. Even Karen’s vow renewals, she informed me it was occurring and she or he already knew as a result of cameras have been there I wasn’t going to return. So they stunning a lot understand how I roll. (laughs) I nonetheless love you, however when cameras are rolling I’ll love you from afar. However I’m really humbled that folks nonetheless take into consideration me and nonetheless discuss concerning the influence I used to be in a position to go away once I was there.

Love & Marriage: DC premieres on OWN Saturday, Might 14, at 9 p.m. ET.

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